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Mission Update 8/16

August 16, 2025

First things first, the child is back in school. I saw great returns with my approach over the summer, so I'm inclined to keep up the low pressure, high support (from an age appropriate distance) environment. There's space for targeted engagement, in a few different areas, once a routine settles in, and I'm satisfied with this.

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Mission Update 7/19

July 19, 2025

First things first, the child is thriving. As anticipated, our time is being spent floating between the tennis courts, the pool, and the nature trail. It's precisely the kind of leisurely summer she needs after a taxing school year. She's presenting with summer brain, but I'm doing my best to remain patient with it.

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My Use Of AI

July 12, 2025

When ChatGPT launched, I felt the commentary was sufficient to understand what it was and what it did. Roughly a year ago, probably at the launch of a new version, the details of which I can't remember, I signed up for a paid account with Open AI. I believed in the work they were doing, and so I wanted to do my part to contribute.

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An Adjustment

July 5, 2025

It's been a thrilling couple of months since I decided to shift my attention and focus online. As much fun as I've had, it's not a sustainable way to go through life on the internet. That I was able to create and maintain the kind of tension necessary to make it this far, without sacrificing too much quality of real life, is really kind of miraculous. It's time to move on though.

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A Small Red Pin

June 21, 2025

A while ago, I wrote a post defending local churches for the charitable works they do. A lot of my first hand experience with this was working a food pantry during the pandemic. The church that runs it has a growing number of campuses in the area, and they're an "all are welcome" crowd.

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In Me Too

June 7, 2025

The other day, as we were riding home from the tennis courts, we crossed paths with two different neighbors who themselves had just crossed paths with each other. I was excited for this, as I'd been looking forward to introducing this one neighbor's daughter to mine for some time.

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Her Family Tree

May 24, 2025

It was probably around spring of 2016 when I started developing a fascination with bonsai trees. Their miniature size and massively detailed beauty captivated me. Some months later, when I learned that I was going to become a father, I decided that I wanted to start a bonsai for my daughter.

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Seggs

May 10, 2025

The first girl I slept with, Jasmine, was introduced to me by my friend Rob. She was a friend of his girlfriend. Rob lived with his mother and grandmother, and they were pretty loose with the rules around there.

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Why These Clothes

April 26, 2025

The girl I was with in my late twenties, she used to joke that there were two aesthetics to me, rockabilly in the summer and hillbilly in the winter. As close to accurate as this was, there was a third aesthetic; work.

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Where It Sits

April 11, 2025

I recently read a challenge, do nothing creative for twenty days. Something like that. At first I thought it was excessive. To post nothing was one thing, but to not even work on anything creative? No drafts, nothing? I was skeptical, but I'm grateful that I did it.

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