Men today aren't the problem, they're a symptom of the problem. They're a symptom of the abused to abuser pipeline playing out on a mass cultural scale, and they're not the only ones.

For generations now, parents have undertrained their sons through neglect and low expectations. Those sons become incompetent men who frustrate and burden their partners, if not continually their parents. Burdened by the same conditions, the women in their lives take over everything, rubbing the salt of infantilization into the wound of incompetence...